I'm usually not an emotional sap, but during this particular morning when I was vigorously scrapping the ice from my driver-side window - a sense of raw joy consumed me.  Why in this bitter cold when most people are cursing their existence am I smiling and thinking that life is "Pretty Good. Prettaaaaay, Prettaaaaay, Pretty Good " (my attempt at imitating Larry David)!  Where does my excitement come from and how do I savor the moment?  What I've realized is that the psychology of human nature

I HATE arguments – I really do.  To me, most arguments are ultimately pointless, meaningless, and conducted over small matters that have little to no real meaning in life. By choosing to argue, rather than choosing to be happy, you are setting your own course. The two are mutually exclusive; I've never met two people who were truly happy when arguing.  Choose happiness over being right!



So, the next time you're searching for happiness at your work, your relationship or even at home, just step